Hold the walking stick in the hand opposite your weaker leg and move it forward as you step with that leg.
Using a walking stick well comes down to three things: getting the height right, holding it on the correct side, and using a steady stepping pattern. Most seniors pick up a stick after a fall, a knee replacement, or when a hip starts complaining — and the difference between a helpful aid and a hazard is often just a few inches of fit and one simple habit. This guide covers proper fit, technique, stairs, and safety checks.
What Height Should A Walking Stick Be?
Correct height is the single most common mistake. When you stand upright with your arms relaxed at your sides, the top of the stick should line up with the wrist crease on your hand. With the stick planted on the ground beside you, your elbow should bend about 15 to 30 degrees — not a sharp angle, not a straight locked arm. A stick set too high forces your shoulder up; one set too low makes you stoop and robs you of support.
Most adjustable sticks have a push-button or twist-lock mechanism. Set the height while wearing the shoes you normally walk in, not barefoot, since shoe soles add height.
Which Hand Should Hold The Stick?
Hold the stick on the side opposite your weak or painful leg. If your right knee is the problem, the stick goes in your left hand. This is called using the stick on the contralateral side, and it works because it mimics your natural walking motion while shifting weight off the sore side. The pattern is simple — stick and weak leg move together:
- Plant the stick a stride length ahead and slightly out to the side, on the same side as the weak leg.
- Step forward with the weak leg, moving it at the same time as the stick.
- Step through with the strong leg.
- Repeat — stick and weak leg always advance together.
Holding the stick on the same side as the injury feels more intuitive at first, but it forces your body to rock sideways with every step and gives far less support.
How To Sit, Stand, And Use Stairs With A Walking Stick
Sitting down and standing up are when most people fumble — and when falls happen. Keep the stick close by, and use both hands on the chair armrests or bed for the actual push.
To stand: slide forward, place both hands on the armrests or bed, lean slightly forward, and push up with both arms. Only pick up the stick once you are standing. To sit: reverse the order — get both hands back on the armrests or bed before you lower yourself, and set the stick aside. Never try to push up off a chair with one hand gripping a stick.
For stairs, use the handrail whenever one exists — it is more stable than any stick. If no rail is available, follow this rule: step up with the stronger leg first, and step down with the weaker leg first, keeping the stick coordinated with the moving leg. One step at a time, and keep one hand on the rail at all times.
Daily Safety Checks And When To Ask For Help
A walking stick fails silently if the rubber tip wears through — the metal base skids on wet tile or polished wood without warning. Check your stick weekly, and replace the rubber tip when the tread flattens. Other habits that prevent slips:
- Wear flat, supportive shoes — no slippers, no slick soles.
- Avoid wet floors, ice, loose rugs, fallen leaves, and uneven ground.
- Keep walkways and stairs lit, especially at night.
If you or a family member are unsteady even with a stick, feel unbalanced, or find that a pair of sticks would work better, clinical guidance recommends a professional assessment from a physical therapist or doctor before continuing — a stick that is the wrong type or height can make balance worse. For seniors who want a stick that travels well or stows neatly by the door, our tested roundup of collapsible walking sticks for seniors covers durable, adjustable models worth considering.
FAQs
Should a walking stick be used on the same side as the injury?
No. The stick belongs in the hand opposite the weak or injured leg. This lets the stick and the sore leg move together, so the stick carries the weight that leg cannot. Using it on the same side forces a rocking, unstable gait and provides far less support.
Which leg goes first when going down stairs with a cane or stick?
Going down, step first with the weaker or affected leg, then bring the stronger leg down to meet it. Going up, the order reverses: lead with the stronger leg, then bring the weaker leg up. Use the handrail whenever one is available.
How can you tell if a walking stick is the right height?
Stand upright with arms relaxed. The top of the stick should reach your wrist crease. When the stick is planted on the ground, your elbow should bend about 15 to 30 degrees. Adjust while wearing your usual walking shoes, since sole height affects the fit.
References & Sources
- NHS inform. “Using a walking stick.” Official guidance on correct fitting, technique, stairs, and safety checks.
- Mayo Clinic. “Cane basics: How to choose and use a cane.” Explains fit, gait patterns, and when professional advice is needed.
- American Academy of Family Physicians. “How to use a cane or walker.” Peer-reviewed guidance on safe gait and stair technique.
